Okay, guilty. HAHA. That shouldn't be the appropriate title. For those who knows me well, I am having a new crush every two hours. It is just a crush. So nothing big, actually.
But sometimes, I am really really getting serious about it, like, you are hoping to get his attention or even notice you, right? Most of the time, having a crush had been way too hardcore, less than stalking but more than admiring.
Yep, guilty is charged again, I've been through that. There is nothing wrong about assuming or expecting, specially when your crush was giving you motives and anything. That was the problem, when your crush starts knowing that you got your eye on him, he was starting to like you or give positive hints that he got his eye on you too, it just not clear if he was really sincere or he just like the guessing game..
It is confusing, yes, that is why I have here some tips maybe you wanna consider. :)
1. Mind set. "It is just a crush."
- You don't have to exaggerate your feelings. Because it will always lead to assuming and expectations of things not likely to happen.
2. Befriend with your crush.
- If you wanna earn pogi points or ganda points, you should be friendly to your crush and his friends. But again, not to the point that you will look like a creepy stalker or what. Add him in Facebook, but don't go over the edge that you will tell him everything you saw on his account. That will sound creepy talaga.. Likes and positive comments on his status is a good move, but not too much.
3. Don't differentiate crush from friend.
- Okay, this is the thing, eventhough you have a crush on him/her, it doesn't mean you are more than friends. That is why you should bound limitations. Of course, act as a normal friend. Greet him when you meet him at the hallway.
4. Decide well if you will skip the friend zone or stay on where you are.
- This is tricky. Of course you'll risk anything you have and you might lost in any chance. That is why you should decide carefully, of course, it is in your instinct if you'll get a positive feedback. If you can't choose between having feelings more than crush or just friendship, you can remain silent and visualize what you really want.
5. Never ever play the "Other Woman/Man"'s part.
- If your crush is already taken, ignore number 4. Kdot?
6. Just carry on with the guessing game.
- If your crush is showing some little clue of affection too, just stay calm.. Don't jump into conclusions or inferences with indefinite clues, it might lead to wrong answers. Let your crush develop the whole message he wanna say, you can figure it out sooner or later. Maybe he just want the chase or also confused on what he is feeling about you, no pressures.
For example: I have this crush in school, he knew that I have a crush on him, I just wanna share why I actually admire him..
One afternoon, as I was passing down the hallway, I saw him approaching, I don't know him back then but he looks familiar because I know, he was one of my classmates, and he smiled and stared at my eyes for a long time, and I was like, God, soooo cute.. Since then, I really really admire him.
But I guess knowing that I have a crush on him, made him a bit denial or maybe against it, I don't know. I got his number, texted him sometimes, sending GroupMessage and he did the same. The confusing part in here is he sometimes send me PersonalMessages, and he was sweet and I was like, "OMG! I have to reply!" and obviously, I reply in a wink, but yes, I'll wait for his reply for about a couple of minutes, sometimes hour, sometimes, he will never reply. It was repeated many times and it will leave me wondering, what was that? -_- Maybe, he was just playing game or just busy or I don't know. Therefore, what I'm gonna do is just carry on. I'm not really in to it.. It is just nice to have a crush who's one of the reason you want to attend on that class. HAHA. Right? :3
For the meantime, while I'm recovering for that confusion, made by my crush, I am secretly dating cute and cool guys.. in my mind! HAHA. I will share my long time crushes, na basted na ako from the start. XD
Zachary Levi, I really adored him, on the first time I saw him in Alvin and the Chipmunks as Toby, then he give the voice for Flynn/Eugene in Tangled. I really love him smiling.. Soooo cute.
Channing Tatum, so hot, I stalk him in Facebook and every website I know just to be updated. Darn it. Look at his eyes. <3
Ben Stiller, I really adored him, he was so funny, all of his movies, even in his action films. I love him playing the role Alex, in Madagascar 1, 2, and 3.
Yes, Dallas MAVS, number 41, Dirk Nowitzki! Really, I was so pissed with LJ when he was bullying him. Unfortunately, they didn't made the championship this year. Sad. I was really fighting for my rights for the TV and remote control last summer, because no one in our house likes NBA except me.
Look, I'm really a NBA fan. Derrick Rose. Yes, if the world will know, I am the long distance cheerleader for Rose! I scream when he was tripped. How can they do that to him? Keep cheering until our TV Monitor get pissed and get out of good reception. Hahaha. Atleast, he was good-looking man and really a sportsman.
I'm a fan, told ya. I idolizes the Big Three, alright, but I idolize more their pinoy coach, Erik Spoelstra. When I was watching and the camera focuses on him, I was like, "Hey! That's my idol!" Too bad, I didn't know he came for a visit here in 'Pinas. :(
Saw him in American Idol Season 11, and I was shocked. Colton Dixon, why so good looking and talented? Why!?
Haah! So funny Phil Phillips, I salute Jessica, but yes, I like Phillip more, not because he is cute, but he sings well and even, his winning earned controversy, well, he deserves to be the American Idol 11 Winner.
Akira Sendoh, since second year high school, I really really really want to have a chance with him. HAHA. Sounds animistic. Yes. The creator of this character made a nice role for him. I know, every Slamdunk fan agrees with me.
Yehee. Of course, if you know him, your childhood was awesome. Son Goku.
Childhood memory: I cried when Goku died because of the explosion of Cell, and the Dragon Balls can't bring him back to life anymore. All of the characters cried, and I am crying too.. Well, the "bida" can't die, right? For a kid, it was just "makatotohanan."
Well, let's wrap it up.. I hope this post can help you deal with your crush, have a good day sweetie! :)
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